The past couple of days had been upsetting. And I'm dying to get it out of my chest. Readers beware. Its a long entry today.
China Earthquake
Heart breaking.
Seeing TV and newspaper reports on e deaths n number of quakes. The constant hindrance from the wrecked roads n strong quakes has caused more death n difficulty in rescue efforts. God is destroying his own creations. There's been too many quakes, please let it stop soon. To date, there's been more than 3000 quakes (big & small). Newborns became orphans. Parents become childless over night. The unimaginable pain in their heart's. Nothing else can heal it. Nothing.
For people who are reading this entry, spare a few minutes n offer your prayers to e dead, the victims, the rescuers, the survivors n e now-paralyzed etc. God just created a whole lot of crippled, homeless, orphans. How are the crippled going to live their lives in future? *Sigh*
I, too saw a newspaper report on a newborn, trapped under the debris, survived by drinking his/her deceased mum's breast milk for I think 3 days.
Another police woman offered her own comfort to a newborn by offering him/her her milk. That newborn too lost his parents in the quake.
Many survivors in order to keep their lives have to lose at least a limp. 1 woman had to saw off her leg in order to be carried out of the debris. A huge rock was resting on her leg, and rescuers have no other way to lift her out other than to get her to saw off her own limp. And she bravely did it herself.
Out of this incident, you get to see, Love is in the air. Celebrities, countries, citizens of all colors and races offered their contributions, in cash, some even action.
To all Singaporeans who are living here, and constantly complaining about how sucky our country is, this is a time to stop complaining. Nothing is perfect. But at least we are living here safely, and in peace. We're free from natural disasters, at least for now.
Marriage, Relationships, Women & Men
One of my dad's friend A has a china mistress in her 30s, still holding a student pass in Singapore. He now wants to divorce his wife of more than 30 yrs. Went through thick n thin with him, bore him 3 kids. And now he wants to divorce her because of this student pass holder woman in her 30s. No brainer. He even wants to follow this China woman to her home town, saying that she promised to support him there. - Ya, right.
Moron.
He wants to sell off his business, leave his money with his wife. Anyway the business ownership & bank account is under his wife's name. She's got no loss anyway. But imagine the hurt in her heart. All these money cannot be used as compensation. No amount of money can compensate for heart-breaks. He highlighted that he couldn't stand his wife's temper anymore. After 30 over years of marriage, he cannot stand her. - Ya, right.
Now tell me, How? How to believe in marriage, men n even women? I seriously have lost sense of all these suddenly. Can u really believe in it? I suddenly feel, a relationship is so weak even when you're married for decades.
I suddenly feel so scared.
Nothing is absolute. It doesn't mean your husband will not cheat on u after 30 yrs of marriage. It doesn't mean your boyfriend of many years will not leave you for another 3rd grade woman. How strong-willed can a man be?
I've also heard it from a male friend who frequents these pubs. He had friends who literally ditch their girlfriends of many years to visit these pubs. *Sigh*
Ok. To all men out there. No decent girlfriend will accept u frequenting these places ok! No! So make your choice n don waste our youth! Don't be so fucking selfish.
Question
What is the equation for a blissful relationship, marriage? Everyone's equation is different. I'm impressed by those who manage to keep their marriage going after many years.
How much trust should you give?
But at least for now, I have no confidence in it, not even in the future of my own relationship.
Nothing is absolute.
China Earthquake
Heart breaking.
Seeing TV and newspaper reports on e deaths n number of quakes. The constant hindrance from the wrecked roads n strong quakes has caused more death n difficulty in rescue efforts. God is destroying his own creations. There's been too many quakes, please let it stop soon. To date, there's been more than 3000 quakes (big & small). Newborns became orphans. Parents become childless over night. The unimaginable pain in their heart's. Nothing else can heal it. Nothing.
For people who are reading this entry, spare a few minutes n offer your prayers to e dead, the victims, the rescuers, the survivors n e now-paralyzed etc. God just created a whole lot of crippled, homeless, orphans. How are the crippled going to live their lives in future? *Sigh*
I, too saw a newspaper report on a newborn, trapped under the debris, survived by drinking his/her deceased mum's breast milk for I think 3 days.
Another police woman offered her own comfort to a newborn by offering him/her her milk. That newborn too lost his parents in the quake.
Many survivors in order to keep their lives have to lose at least a limp. 1 woman had to saw off her leg in order to be carried out of the debris. A huge rock was resting on her leg, and rescuers have no other way to lift her out other than to get her to saw off her own limp. And she bravely did it herself.
Out of this incident, you get to see, Love is in the air. Celebrities, countries, citizens of all colors and races offered their contributions, in cash, some even action.
To all Singaporeans who are living here, and constantly complaining about how sucky our country is, this is a time to stop complaining. Nothing is perfect. But at least we are living here safely, and in peace. We're free from natural disasters, at least for now.
Marriage, Relationships, Women & Men
One of my dad's friend A has a china mistress in her 30s, still holding a student pass in Singapore. He now wants to divorce his wife of more than 30 yrs. Went through thick n thin with him, bore him 3 kids. And now he wants to divorce her because of this student pass holder woman in her 30s. No brainer. He even wants to follow this China woman to her home town, saying that she promised to support him there. - Ya, right.
Moron.
He wants to sell off his business, leave his money with his wife. Anyway the business ownership & bank account is under his wife's name. She's got no loss anyway. But imagine the hurt in her heart. All these money cannot be used as compensation. No amount of money can compensate for heart-breaks. He highlighted that he couldn't stand his wife's temper anymore. After 30 over years of marriage, he cannot stand her. - Ya, right.
And lately I heard a friend wants to marry a Thai woman also in her 30s. He knew her in a Thai pub less than 2 months ago. My friend is in his mid 20s who just started working. This woman pushed him for marriage. And mentioned she will not work after they get married. Just want stay home and be tai-tai.
When men wants to leave you, they give you all sorts of stupid excuses.
Now tell me, How? How to believe in marriage, men n even women? I seriously have lost sense of all these suddenly. Can u really believe in it? I suddenly feel, a relationship is so weak even when you're married for decades.
I suddenly feel so scared.
Nothing is absolute. It doesn't mean your husband will not cheat on u after 30 yrs of marriage. It doesn't mean your boyfriend of many years will not leave you for another 3rd grade woman. How strong-willed can a man be?
I've also heard it from a male friend who frequents these pubs. He had friends who literally ditch their girlfriends of many years to visit these pubs. *Sigh*
Ok. To all men out there. No decent girlfriend will accept u frequenting these places ok! No! So make your choice n don waste our youth! Don't be so fucking selfish.
Question
What is the equation for a blissful relationship, marriage? Everyone's equation is different. I'm impressed by those who manage to keep their marriage going after many years.
How much trust should you give?
But at least for now, I have no confidence in it, not even in the future of my own relationship.
Nothing is absolute.
